Virginity!This word has made many relation and ruined many relations. There’s always a fight of whether a girl should be virgin or not. And, since, I have lived enough in this society to see it’s working (though I don’t understandit all), I will go with,” A GIRL SHOULD BE VIRGIN!”. Okay! I know you must be thinking that who the hell I am to pass my judgement. First of all, it’s an opinion, backed with justification. And, if it offended you (no surprise) then you could do an incredible job of ……(it’s really difficult but not impossible )………….IGNORING it. If you can’t then, close your eyes,take a deep breath and remind yourself that nobody gives a fuck. Peace!
Reason 1: A girl should stay virgin because if she will not it will hurt the ego of her newly married husband. And, pati toh parmeshwar hota hena and aurat peron ki jooti. So, if we go by this highly intellectual thinking of our morally great society, there’s no place for a woman if she hurts the ego of her husband. Though, you have to adjust and make peace if your husband has slept with n number of girls.Why make peace? Becaue he is yourparmeshwar! And, a parmeshwar can’t be wrong. So, the ultimate aim of your life should to please your future husband, who might be fucking someone else, right now.
Reason 2: A girl should stay virgin because if she is not then she is a slut. Simple as that! Yes, yes, she is a slut. Accept it. I am not at all going to consider the fact that, like men, women too have sexual needs and desires and nature has permitted her body to be sexually active. Like men, they too could share an intimate relation with someone. But, you see, society has an upper hand over nature. C’mon, when society has passed the judgement, does nature even have a say in it.No! You can’t question a society’s thinking. If society thinks you are a slut then you are slut. I am so happy to be born in such broad-minded, women worshiping society . Made my eyes wet while writing this article.
Reason 3: A girl should stay virgin because if she is not then she is impure.How disgusting! You are touched by a ……..man. How gross could it get? And, if we go by this equation, no guy will marry you.Why would they! See, they have sex before marriage but they don’t want to marry someone who is not virgin. God! How could someone can have such high thinking! So, girls don’t lose your virginity because that’s your ticket to marriage. And, in a world like this, making a career and standing for other women is pointless when you can have the glory of being married to a bigoted, chauvinist and women objectifying moron and be a show piece in his kitchen. Wow, my dream life!
Reason 4: A girl should stay virgin becauseshe is a girl.End of story! You, being a girlbrings down the fact you have to be virgin. And, if you are raped then you don’t deserve a place in society. How could you be raped? C’mon, couldn’t you have pleaded in front of your rapist and chanted the shlokas and bhajans. You could have easily averted the rape by referring your rapist as bhaiya. Since, you didn’t do any of such things, you deserved to raped. The rapists are not at all wrong, because they are men. And, they are bound to make mistakes, especially if he is minor. Awwww, can’t you forgive an 18-year-old baby rapist. He was immature. These girls, I am telling you, they are the one ruining our Indian Culture. Fools!